Why do we doubt people?

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In our life we see and meet people who doubts others including us. If we have no such habit then that is good. But it does not mean their is bad. Since we have not walked in their shoes and made our journey similar to their experience we can not judge others. If in our life we have never judged others then that is because your up bringing is fine. Your parents had a beautiful relationship, loyal friends and staffs and et cetera. But again there is an exception like a person can be acute doubter to anyone. This could be the reason of the past life. Hey could be in born doubter.

However, generally we think, why do some people doubt so much on others? Why can not they stay happy and not waste time suffering in anxiety?As a person with this habit, we just not waste our time imagining the scenario but also we act in the scenario and try to find solutions for the doubt we planted in our mind. The worst part is then when we are told all the real reason by the real person in reality whom we doubted and we stay calm for sometime. But again we imagine like What if He/ she was lying? Again we imagine and waste the time and energy. 

Doubt is consequence of the action of betray. When we are betrayed in past that links with our close people then we start to doubt on others. A stranger can never betray us since we would not entrust them to disclose our private msgs. We humans know whom we trust and whom not. 

What shall we do to help them to live happy life with out making them worry? Reply is simple, Don't do something that could put them to doubt. Don't bring your egos between you and your friend. If he or she trust you then doing your work is necessary but not doing what he does not want is the must to be followed. Here for some time you will find it ok. But when you find one's doubt always on you then slowly you will start to lose their charm when you look at them. So this happens just after when you bring ego in between relationship. If you are in a relationship then it is your responsibility too to take care of their problems.

When someone doubt that means they are afraid to lose something very precious to them. So if you never gave them chance from your side to give them worries then slowly they will forget their doubting habit. So, they value this relationship so much that unfortunately they go negative in words. If you don't go behind the words then you will find the reason that is solely the safety of you, love for you and the fear to lose you. 

The negative side is when people doubt so much on someone they soon will start to minus the good qualities and will just safe the negative quality.

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